Written by stilletosnsmiles on mochacity.com
I find it heartbreaking that women will do any and everything to change themselves for a relationship. They will settle for less and make light of it. I find this saddening. What bugs me even more is the fact that most of the little girls posing out here, trying to play like they are grown, learned everything they know about, dating love & relationships, from their Mamas.
Females/Woman need to understand that whatever you do in front, beside or around your children stays with them for life. If your young daughter sees you sleeping with her father, but the little girl knows her father goes home to his “real wife” after the fact. What are you really teaching your daughter? We as women need to pay closer attention to what we expose ourselves and our children too.
If you little girl sees various men coming in and out your house, she is going to grow up thinking thats ok and its not.
And when a little girls grows up with out her daddy in her life, she usually ends up trying to find that love and attention that she didn’t receive from him growing up in men. And this usually leads to abusive relationships etc. Men, its a shame. You should do better. Because one day you will want that time but it will be too late.
Because, what happens is that same little child grows up confused and bewildered about relationships and what role they are suppose to play in their life. These little girls grow up looking for love in all the wrong places. Feeling worthless and with no self esteem. Hiding behind the newest fashion and the latest Dick they conquered and sucked for the night.
The state of Woman on a whole is disgusting. But to see Black Women on this path of degradation and lose of self esteem is even more crippling. We need to educate OUR little girls from birth. Self Esteem needs to be taught at home as well as the classroom.
