Can people change? Is it really possible? This happens so much in relationships. You meet someone and you notice a lot of things that you don’t particularly care for in that person but somewhere deep in your mind you say, “Umhhh, I can probably change that”. Being a female, I will speak from the female perspective on this topic and from experience.
I have met and currently know females who have men in their life who disrespect them, lie, cheat, abuse them…these people will not change!
If your man will disrespect his mama, he WILL disrespect you. If he lies to you, he will do it again. If he cheats on you, he will most likely do it again. And especially these men who are married and you women are out here falling in love with them and making them the center of your universe. If he will do his wife like that, what makes you think you are so special or that your relationship with him will be any different. If he hits you, he has problems. Mostly because he is a punk and a coward and like to fight girls but HE WILL PROBABLY DO IT AGAIN.
And being a victim to some of this myself over the years, I have learned that people are who they are. And my biggest problem with that was that this person had me thinking a lot of times that it was me. I was bringing a lot of this on and I had to come to realize that it wasn’t. Some people just can’t admit that when it boils down to it, they aren’t sh!t.
Maya Angelou could have not said it better
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Pearls of wisdom my sisters. Read it and implement it into your life.
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I truly understand what this mean..I learned the hard way..!