Sistas, how many of you know that female who time a guy calls or comes over….the only thing that gets turned down is the lights??? We all do and its sad to say. Now if you are in a serious relationship with your man, do you sweetie. Whatever works but to you that just met this guy and known him all of but 24 hours…its not cute.
What I want to know is, is it really that hard to turn down a booty call every now and again. I was always taught that men like a challenge meaning that if he calls you and your busy or you have something to do and cant see him, this creates a challenge. And he will actually put forth more effort to see you. He feels challenged and also he knows that you are not that easy. But if he can call you and before the phone rings a second time and your picking up out of breath saying, “YES!, Oh lord YES! Please come over….” he may think that your easy and not really a challenge to him.
And Im not saying be a tease either! This could possibly get you hurt depending on the brother you are dealing with. But come on sistas, speak out. Do you not know females who are like this and if you are one, we want to hear from you to.
Until next time..
Emagyne
I think we all know women like this. What amazes me is that we know this, but we continue to do it anyway! Is it that good! I mean come on now! We need to learn to make them chase it instead of putting it on a platter. After all anything as good as we are is worth the wait. But another thing is not to always wait on him to come to us like we are above going to him. If you put it on him unexpectedly every now and then like it’s the last time you will ever do it, he will always be anticipating that next time. So what I’m trying to say is let the dog chase the cat some times. You won’t regret it in the end!
Lord knows that I used to be like that, I used to mess around with a close friend of mine who I lost contact with. But any way we used to do each other like that knowing that we both wanted each other very badly!!
It used to trip me out sometimes, but I have learned that it is not worth it if you have to sweat a man just for some d***. Because there are plenty of fish in the sea. And my favorite quote of all is “A d**** comes a dime per dozen!!