D@mn that….what is she wearing???? She looks like she just stepped off the plane from the U.K.
Do you think that she is really pregnant?
Is your man a “silent lover”?
Ok, we all know most men like us to be verbal in the bedroom. They like for us to let them know when they are “doing it right” per say. I ask this because I was talking to a female friend who stated that no matter what she did, and she did some thangs, he does not respond or he is just basically silent.
Does this bother you? I know you don’t want them screaming like some b!tch but you also want to know if your doing it right. My past relationship, he wasn’t quiet but he wasn’t loud either. He responded well but when he reached his peak……well, the look on his face was words enough for me. But I dont think I could deal with it if I was putting it down and he just laid there or whatever. Have you ever encountered this problem with a man who just kept quiet the whole time.
I wanna know.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Can people change? Is it really possible? This happens so much in relationships. You meet someone and you notice a lot of things that you don’t particularly care for in that person but somewhere deep in your mind you say, “Umhhh, I can probably change that”. Being a female, I will speak from the female perspective on this topic and from experience.
I have met and currently know females who have men in their life who disrespect them, lie, cheat, abuse them…these people will not change!
If your man will disrespect his mama, he WILL disrespect you. If he lies to you, he will do it again. If he cheats on you, he will most likely do it again. And especially these men who are married and you women are out here falling in love with them and making them the center of your universe. If he will do his wife like that, what makes you think you are so special or that your relationship with him will be any different. If he hits you, he has problems. Mostly because he is a punk and a coward and like to fight girls but HE WILL PROBABLY DO IT AGAIN.
And being a victim to some of this myself over the years, I have learned that people are who they are. And my biggest problem with that was that this person had me thinking a lot of times that it was me. I was bringing a lot of this on and I had to come to realize that it wasn’t. Some people just can’t admit that when it boils down to it, they aren’t sh!t.
Maya Angelou could have not said it better
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Pearls of wisdom my sisters. Read it and implement it into your life.
